In
the name of Allah,
the All-Merciful, the Ever-Merciful. All Prayers and Blessings of Allah be upon
Prophet Muhammad. We praise Allah, thank Him, and seek His help, guidance and
forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evil in our souls and the
sinfulness of our deeds.
“Whomever Allah guides, then he is right-guided,
and whomever He leads away into error, then you will never find for him a
right-minded patron” (TMQ,
18:17).
Truthfulness is a trait that is associated with prophets. Whenever
Allah (AWJ
)
praises a Prophet in the Qur’an, Allah describes him as truthful and sincere.
“And mention in the Book Ibrahim (Abraham); surely he was most sincere, a
Prophet” (TMQ, 19:41). “And mention in the Book Idris (Enoch); surely he was
most sincere, a Prophet” (TMQ, 19:56). “And mention in the Book Shu'ayb; surely
he was sincerely (true) to his promise, and he was a Messenger, a Prophet” (TMQ,
19:54).
Therefore, we notice that truthfulness was a character trait
associated with prophets to a degree approaching perfection and was not doubted
for a moment. It is
thus a defining characteristic of the Prophet (SAWS).
The
Prophet (SAWS) was known among his people and tribe as “the truthful and
honest,” even before the revelation. After the revelation, he was also known
among his friends and followers as “the truthful and truly-inspired”.
This was
to the extent that, three years after the revelation, he once climbed
Mount Safa when he was ordered to go
public with his da’wah
(call for Islam):
“So
profess openly what you have been commanded and veer away from the associators
(Those who associate others with Allah)-”(TMQ, 15:94).
He ascended the
mount and his speech was almost unbelievable. This was to test how much people
believed in him. He gathered all the tribes and asked them, "Suppose
I told you that there was an (enemy) cavalry in the valley intending to attack
you, would you believe me?”
Whoever has made Hajj
or “Umrah
knows that
Safaa is a low hillock. It would have been easy to see the cavalry,
had they been actually behind the mount. "Yes,” they said, "for you have
never told us anything but the truth." He then said, "I warn you of a severe
punishment”
Even when Abu Lahab stood up to reply, he could not accuse
him of being a liar. Instead, he said, “Damn you, is that why you gathered us?”
So, do you see how solidly rooted this trait is in the Prophet (SAWS)?
After the revelation, he was known as the truthful and truly-inspired.
Abdullaah
Ibn-Mas“ood (RA)
narrated that Allah's Apostle, the truthful and truly-inspired, said that one
is
formed in
his
mother’s womb for forty days, then he becomes a clot for another forty days, and
then a piece of flesh for another forty days.
Such concepts were not witnessed by the Prophet’s companions
as we witness them nowadays with scientific development and the ultrasound
scanning device, which can determine the age
of the fetus. When one of the companions narrated the
hadith,
he said, “We were told by the truthful and truly-inspired,” and they
actually believed what the Prophet had said.
Today we
are talking about a genuine characteristic of prophets; a characteristic that is
associated with them, especially the Prophet Muhammad (SAWS). Imagine if
it had turned out that one of the prophets had lied, even once; would he be
believed afterwards in his mission?
Even Allah (AWJ)
does not deal with us except in truthfulness. Allah (AWJ) says what can
be translated as, “Allah, there is no god except He. Indeed He will
definitely gather you on the Day of the Resurrection; there is no
suspicion about it. And who is more sincere in discourse than Allah?”
(TMQ, 4:87). And He also says, “And the ones who have believed and done
deeds of righteousness, We will soon cause them to enter Gardens from beneath
which rivers run, eternally (abiding) therein forever; the promise of Allah (is)
truly (binding) and who is more truly sincere in his blissful saying than Allah?
(TMQ, 4:122).
Do you truly believe in the Day of
Judgment and Jannah (Paradise)? And who is more sincere than Allah? So,
if you truly believe in Jannah, where is your preparation for it? Are
you ready for that Day of Judgment? And if you believe in hellfire, where is
your fear of it?
You
will
notice many words which are derived from “truthfulness” which you do not usually
notice. For example, the word sadeeq (friend) is derived from sidq
(truthfulness), because a friend is that person who is sincere in his
dealings with you and would never betray you. Also, don’t be astonished;
sadaqah (charity) is also derived from sidq because it is the proof
of your fundamental truthfulness before Allah.
The
Importance of truthfulness and the Prophet’s hadiths about truthfulness:
The Prophet (SAWS)
instructed us to do the following to be truthful for truthfulness leads to
righteousness, and righteousness leads to jannah (paradise). He said
that a man who keeps on telling the truth and actively seeks truthfulness will
be written before Allah as one of the strictly veracious. Beware of
falsehood. It
leads to immorality, and immorality leads to hellfire. While a man who keeps
on telling lies and actively seeks falsehood will be written before Allah as a
consistent liar."
How would you like to be
written before Allah? Imagine that it is possible for someone among us to be
written before Allah as a liar and to be gathered on the Day of Judgment as
such. He would read his Book of Deeds and would find himself described before
Allah as a liar; even the angels would know that he was a liar.
Conversely, any ordinary
person, possibly a student or a woman who maintains truthfulness in her home and
on the Day of Judgment, may be called a ‘truthful person’.
“Truthfulness leads to righteousness”
The Prophet (SAWS) chose the word “yahdi” (leads) to show that
“truthfulness” is what guides you by the hand to Jannah; however, if you
lie, lying will take you to hellfire.
And look at
the word “yataharra” (persists) used in the above hadith. “Yataharra”
means to observe accuracy in your truthfulness; in order to ensure that
you do not make even a little lie.
“Falsehood leads to al-Fujur
(wickedness, evil-doing)” He also chose the word “fujur” because
it is descriptive of all kinds of evil-doings, as if lying causes all evil.
The Prophet (SAWS) says that if
a person guarantee six things on his part then he shall guarantee jannah
(paradise): Speak the truth when you talk, keep a promise when you make it,
fulfill the trust with which you are entrusted, safeguard your private parts
(from immorality), lower your gaze (in modesty), and restrain your hands (from
doing injustice).
The
Prophet also said that whoever can guarantee (the chastity) of what is between
his two jaw-bones and what is between his legs (i.e. his tongue and his private
parts), then the Prophet himself (SAWS) would guarantee him
Paradise.
Similarly, the
Prophet said that we ought to replace that which you doubt for that which you do
not doubt; for it is the truth that brings peace of mind,
and it is falsehood that brings uncertainty.
It is as if the
Prophet (SAWS) is expressing his inner thoughts. As you ponder this
hadith, how do you feel? Relieved and assured, right? You do not feel
worried. You do not feel hesitant? Your face does not change
color remembering your lies? This hadith teaches us
that that whenever we deal with a truthful person, we feel assured. However,
whenever you deal with a lying person, you become worried. You do not know what
he will do. You do not trust him.
Imagine if the whole society were
permeated with lying. How worried would we become? And vice-versa, if the
society was filled with mercy and truthfulness, and people felt secure towards
one another, then that society would be filled with trust.
Indeed as the Prophet said; it is great
treachery that you should tell your brother something and have him believe you
when you are lying. Suppose you talk to your friend and he believes you while
you are lying to him. Then, you say to your friends, “He is an idiot; he
believed me”. If he is an idiot, then you are deceitful before Allah (AWJ).
So, do not become upset when an equally underhanded person does the same to you.
The Prophet (SAWS) taught us that the
signs of a hypocrite are three: If he speaks he tells a lie, if trusted he
proves to be dishonest, and if he makes a promise he breaks it. The Prophet
(SAWS) tells us that when a man lies, the angel moves a mile away from
him out of the rottenness of what he did. Lying is indeed rotten, so if this is
how an angel sees lying, imagine how Allah (SWT) sees it. The angel moves
a mile away, so how much will lying displease Allah (SWT)? And if the
angel moves away, who will be left to influence the liar then? Satan.
The
companions of the Prophet (SAWS) say that no manner was more
hateful to the Messenger of Allah (SAWS) than lying. If a man
amongst them had lied to the Prophet (SAWS), he would keep it deep within
himself (regarding the lie) until he knew that the man (who lied) had repented.
Those who love the Prophet (SAWS) and wish to be loved by him, and those
who praise him because they know that now he responds to them, do you wish to be
detested by the Prophet (SAWS); because he detests lying?
We should learn two things from this
story:
1)
When you lie, imagine that
the Prophet’s (SAWS) attitude has changed towards you and he has become
upset with you.
2)
The Prophet (SAWS)
will remain displeased with you until you repent.
Do you realize that lying can be
deleted from the record of your actions and that Allah will be pleased with you
if you simply repent from lying?
Some scholars believe that the
prevalence of lying is a sign of the hour (Day of Judgment). Scholars also say
that whoever keeps on lying will end up committing a major sin.
Imagine! Think about these two points:
Why is lying considered a sign of the
hour? Because the universe is based on a genuine human characteristic:
righteousness.
“Allah created the heavens and the earth for just ends, and in order that each
soul may find the recompense of what it has earned...” (TMQ, 45:22)
What corrupts righteousness? The
primary way to destroy the truth and lead to falsehood
is by lying. Imagine that lying spreads and spreads until kindness becomes
detested, goodness becomes evil, and righteousness becomes falsehood.
Then truth is destroyed and crushed to the extent that people do not know where
the truth lies. Then, the Hour takes place. The skies and earth will be gone
because the foundation, righteousness, is gone. Therefore, a sign of
safeguarding the earth is people remaining truthful and believing in
righteousness and denying falsehood. If this applies, then you know that life on
earth will continue.
This is why we say that there still
remains great hope in our countries and nations because people still believe in
the truth, recognize it, and value it.
So, why is lying, and persisting on it,
considered a major sin?
Because lying prevails on the tongue
until you believe yourself deep inside and believe that you are right. You may
even insist on your opinion even though you know you are wrong; this is the
first stage. In another stage, lying becomes part of your normal actions. All
your behavior and habits become lies. You then commit major sins because you
cheat and shatter all prohibitions. This is why lying opens the door to major
sins.
For instance, tell a person to commit
all sins except lying. If a girl is seeing a boy behind her parents’ back,
don’t ask her to break up with him, just ask her to stop lying. After
punishments and reproaches from her family, there is no way for her to proceed
with this relationship except through lying to her family. Or, she would have
to end this relationship. What would you say if you came home
late one night from an event that was sinful and we
asked you not to mention it until your father asked you where you were?
In other words, if you want
to close the door to major sinful behaviors, the first thing you should do is
stop lying. You will suffer in the beginning but afterwards, you will prefer to
leave all sins and mischief so that you won’t have to lie. Do you see how
valuable truthfulness is?
It is also said that lying
eventually
leads to hypocrisy. Can you imagine that?
Even
Allah (AWJ) classifies people into two kinds: truthful and hypocritical.
In His words, which can be translated as, “That Allah may recompense the
sincere ones for their sincerity, and torment the hypocrites, in case He (so)
decides, or relents towards them. Surely Allah has been Ever-Forgiving,
Ever-Merciful” (TMQ, 33:24). What do you think brought the description of
hypocrites into this context? Shouldn’t it have been the description of liars?
The reason is that a liar would eventually become a hypocrite.
That is why
truthfulness is the foundation of faith and lying is the foundation of
hypocrisy, and that is why it is not possible that you combine both faith and
lying in your heart; one of them has to expel the other.
The
results of lying on the Day of Judgment:
Allah (AWJ)
says what can be translated as, “And on the Day of the Resurrection you will
see the ones who lied against Allah, their faces blackened; is there not in Hell
a lodging for the proud?” (TMQ, 39:60).
Allah (AWJ)
calls out on the Day of Judgment, “This is the Day the sincere ones will
profit by their sincerity” (TMQ, 5:119).
Even if telling
the truth leads you to troubles in this life, it will profit you on the Day of
Judgment and you will be optimistic when you hear that call.
Allah (AWJ)
says about his prophets, what can be translated as,
“And as
We took from the Prophets their covenant, and from you and from Nuh, and
Ibrahim, and Musa,
and Isa, son of Maryam. (Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Jesus, son of Mary
respectively) And We took from them a solemn covenant” (TMQ, 33:7).
The beginning of
the ayah
was talking about prophets, about how they will be questioned concerning their
truthfulness. So, how will liars be questioned about their truthfulness? If
Musa, Isa, Nuh, and Muhammad will be questioned about their truthfulness, how
will you fare?
Do not be amazed
about the value of truthfulness. As we said, it is the foundation of the
heavens and earth; if it disappears, the Hour is imminent.
The Prophet (SAWS)
tells us about shafaa“ah (intercession) where he talks about a long wait
on the Day of Judgment. Those who were liars will be in a
tough situation, since the people will stand naked and shoeless for five
thousand years as the sun gets closer to their heads. Out of extreme distress,
the unbelievers ask Allah (AWJ) to save them from this situation, even if
it means to be placed in Hellfire.
All of humanity,
in millions and billions, will go to each of the prophets asking for
intercession to begin their Judgment (thus ending the painful wait), until the
Prophet (SAWS) says “I am the one for it, I am the one!” He will fall down
in prostration to Allah (AWJ) and then he will be addressed,
“'Raise up your head (O Muhammad)! Ask, and your request will be granted, and
speak, and your speech will be heard; intercede, and your intercession will be
accepted.'”
I am telling this
story because the Prophet Ibrahim (AS) (Abraham) is among the
prophets approached by humanity in that situation. They will call him: “O,
Khalil Al-Rahman (close friend of The Most Merciful)! O father of prophets,
intercede for us with Allah”. And he will reply: “Myself! Myself!
I am not fit for this undertaking. I
lied three times…” and he will mention his lies and ask them to go to Musa
(Moses) (AS).
One of these lies was when he said it (destroying the idols) was done by the
biggest idol in the incident of destroying all the idols.”
He
considers it a lie, even though it was just covering for the truth. He did it
to prove to the unbelievers that they were wrong, but he was a truthful man,
whose soul dreaded any lie. He felt it was a major lie that would prevent him
from interceding. What about a person who arrives on the Day of Judgment with a
life full of lies? The problem is that his soul does not dread the enormity of
lying.
Describing this kind of person who is accustomed to lying, Allah (AWJ)
says that they will arrive on the Day of Judgment and lie to Allah (AWJ).
Imagine! “Then will they have no deception save that they will say: By
Allah, our Lord, we never were idolaters. Behold! How they lie against their own
souls! But the (lie) which they invented will leave them in the lurch.” (TMQ,
6:23-24). Having been accustomed to lying, they reach the extent to falsely
avow by Allah, in front of Allah (AWJ). So, Allah (AWJ) says that
they have lied to themselves and not to Allah.
Why do People Lie?
For fear of falling into trouble:
This is the main reason among people.
For example, if a wife watches TV all day and her husband comes back home and
asking for food, a problem will arise if she tells the truth. So, she lies (e.g.
there was a problem with the stove…). The reason here is to get out of the
awkward situation by presuming that the lie will save me from the consequences.
Isn’t that the most common reason most of us lie? For example, a student fails
the exam. He did not study. His father wants to know the grades but the son
cannot tell him the truth, so he says that he passed. Then the father is
surprised to know after four years that his son had failed. Or consider an
employee who did not complete his job properly and consequently, lied to his
boss.
The problem is that you think a lie can save you. Had you known that what you
did would get you into more severe trouble, and that the person you are trying
to appease will be angrier just as Allah (AWJ) will be angry with you,
what would be your attitude? Allah (AWJ) will expose all lies. Would you
lie and save yourself from the momentary difficulty and later be exposed so that
your position becomes more dire? Or would you be truthful and endure the
punishment, yet be known as a truthful person?
The Prophet (SAWS) says that we ought to faithfully seek the truth even
if you think it will incur annihilation on you for truly all salvation is within
it.
He also
tells us in a beautiful hadith (if truly authentic) that
wise men say that if truthfulness is placed on
a wound, it will heal. Hence, if you sin and are injured by it, truthfulness
will heal it. Sometimes a remedy is painful to the wound but, in the end, it
heals.
Omar Ibnul-Khattab said, “If truthfulness
places me in a subordinate position – and it rarely does—that would be better
for me than being elevated by lying, and it rarely does”. It is thus better to
look bad in front of people yet remain truthful than to look good in front of
people as I lie.
Omar Ibn
Abdul-Aziz said, “By Allah, I have
never lied once since I knew that lying demeans its people”.
Junaid said, “Genuine truthfulness is to be truthful in a situation
whereby nothing will save you except lying”. This is the greatest kind of
truthfulness: to be truthful in a situation in which you are sure that lying
would save you.
I will tell you a story that happened during the time of the
Prophet: The Prophet (SAWS) went out during the Battle of Tabuk
with thirty thousand of his companions. It was very hot in August and the
distance was far (approximately one thousand kilometers). Before leaving, the
hypocrites began taking leave from the Prophet (SAWS). However, there
were three of his truthful companions who failed to set out with the troops,
among whom was Ka“b Ibn-Maalik, who narrates this story. He says that every
passing day he would say “I will follow them tomorrow, I will follow them
tomorrow,” until they reached a distance he could not catch up with them. He
kept walking around Madinah finding no one but the hypocrites until the
Prophet (SAWS) finished the battle and came back. He said, “When the
Prophet (SAWS) returned, my extreme sorrow haunted me. What would I tell
him? And how would I avoid his wrath tomorrow?”
Isn’t that what happens to you? And whose wrath is it that you
fear? Your father’s? Your mother’s? Your husband’s? What if it were the
Prophet (SAWS)? So he says, “I kept bringing to mind all sorts of lies
and choosing the one that the Prophet would believe most and would forgive me”.
Isn’t that what happens to you?
He continues narrating, “So, when the Prophet returned, deceit
abandoned me and I decided to be truthful to the Prophet”. Imagine if you were
in this situation and you missed the jihad with the Prophet in the name
of Allah.
“So, the Prophet came and sat inside the mosque. The hypocrites
agreed to enter together and kept on asking for the Prophet’s forgiveness and
swearing to him, ‘By Allah, such and such happened and that is what prevented
us”. The Prophet accepted publicly but in his heart he asked forgiveness for
them. He renewed the bay“ah (pledge of allegiance) with them and they
happily departed. Ka“b Ibn-Maalik saw all that and he recognized that falsehood
could not save him.
He said, “The Prophet looked at me and smiled an angry smile and
said to me come over. So, I walked up and sat in front of him. The Prophet
asked about what kept me behind and whether I had not yet bought a camel to
carry me. I told him “O Prophet of Allah, if I sat before a worldly king, I
would have come up with an excuse because I am skillful with words” (i.e. he
could sweet-talk and lie). “But, O Prophet of Allah, if I tell you today
something to appease you, Allah will make you angry with me. And if I tell you
truthful words, you would be angry with me. I want the acceptance of Allah, so
by Allah, O Prophet of Allah, I had no excuse (he swears) and I was never in a
stronger or better condition than on that day”.
Can you do that with your father or with your boss at work? “I
have no excuse!” Not in a proud way, no. Our master
Ka“b
never intended that either, but it was the truth. So, the Prophet says, “This
one has said the truth, (which means that he knew that the others did not say
the truth), Stand up, until Allah sends his decree.” Ka“b said, “I stood up and
the Prophet forbad talking with us three for forty days and these increased to
another ten days”. So, they remained for fifty days not being spoken to by the
Prophet and any of his companions.
Does it mean that, because he said the truth, he should not be
punished? No, the Prophet wants to teach us that you must be truthful and
endure the consequences. Don’t say that if I am truthful my father will cut my
allowance, so lying is better. No, be truthful and bear the consequences of you
wrongdoings. And they remained like that “until, when the earth, spacious as it is, became
straitened for them, and their souls became straitened
for them” (TMQ, 9:118)
as it was described in the Qur’aan in Surat At-Tawbah. Ka“b said, “After
I left the Prophet, men from the tribe of Abu-Salamah from the Ansar
told me, ‘You should have lied and found excuses like so and so. Didn’t you see
that the Prophet
has asked forgiveness for them and this erases what has passed?’”
He said,
“This continued until I intended to go back to the Prophet and contradict
myself!” He admits to the hesitations of his soul, and that is what happens
with us. The situation remained that way; they were not spoken to until the
tawbah
(repentance) of these three was related in a Qur’aan that will be recited until
the Day of Judgment. “Indeed Allah has already relented towards the
Prophet…And to the three who were left staying behind,…O you who have believed,
be pious to Allah and be with the sincere.” (TMQ, 9:117-119). So, be like
Ka“b Ibn-Maalik and be truthful!
Let’s try
to agree on being truthful. Let anything happen, it will pass like anything
else, but you will be known among the people as a truthful person. Ka“b
Ibn-Maalik says, “So, after the fifty days had past, I went to greet the Prophet
at the mosque, and his face lit up with joy. We knew that if the Prophet smiled
and was happy with something, his face would light up like the moon. The
Prophet of Allah looked at me and I told him, ‘O Prophet of Allah, by Allah
nothing saved me except truthfulness. Part of my repentance is to speak nothing
but the truth from now on. By Allah, I never lied once since then, and I hope I
will continue doing that until I die.’” Can we be like that?
To gain
benefit:
The
second reason for lying is gaining benefits, which can be in the form of fame,
profit, leadership, money, social status, etc. This type of lying is worse,
more evil than the first because it causes those who resort to it to fall into
the pit of hypocrisy. They first start by cheating and end up by committing
forbidden acts. Even shedding blood would be completely acceptable to them if
they choose lying as a way of life, because lying alone is not enough to bring
personal gains closer. Lying for personal interests is exactly what led
Abu-Jahl astray. People assume that Abu-Jahl did not convert to Islam because
he did not believe the Prophet (SAWS), but the fact is that he knew the
Prophet (SAWS) was telling the truth.
Abu-Jahl
revealed the reason behind this unreasonable hostility to one of his friends.
When the Prophet (SAWS) talked to him about Islam, Abu-Jahl retorted,
“You talked to me about it several times! I know you are a liar. I would have
followed you if I thought you were not.” After the Prophet walked away
disappointed, Abu-Jahl said, “By God, I know that he is not a liar, but I cannot
simply join him; my tribe and his (Bani
Makhzoom and Bani Hashim)
have always competed against one another. They took the
responsibility of providing water for the pilgrims, so
we took the responsibility of providing assistance. We host many with food and
drink exactly as they do. Now that we are of an almost equal status, they say
that amongst them is a prophet! That is too much
to
compete with!” The friend to whom Abu-Jahl was speaking
revealed the story later after he embraced Islam. However, Abu-Jahl preferred
to lie in the present life to protect his interests and be at the bottom of hell
in the hereafter.
To harm
others:
The third
reason for lying is to harm others, either because of a grudge or because of
envy or dislike. For example, a person who bears a grudge against another would
lie to make trouble for that other person or to take his/her position. People
should think twice before they allow their feelings to wreck other people’s
lives. Spreading a rumor about someone can earn one a seventy-year-long fall
into Hell.
To lie
for the sake of lying:
A person
might lie just for the sake of lying. This type of lie is simply inexcusable.
The Prophet (SAWS) was asked whether a believer could be cowardly to
which he replied that it was possible. He was also asked whether a believer
could be miserly, and he replied affirmatively. Last, he was asked whether a
believer could be a liar and he replied that a believer can not be a liar.
Hence, one can be pardoned for a moment of cowardice or miserliness, but never
for blatant dishonesty.
Types of truthfulness:
There are three types of truthfulness: truthfulness of intention,
truthfulness of speech, and truthfulness of action.
Truthfulness of intention:
Truthfulness of intention is devoting one’s deeds to Allah alone,
without asking for a reward other than Allah’s satisfaction. For instance, one
would study just to pass, or just because one must. However, if one studies
with the intention to pleasing of Allah and one's parents by being an excellent
Muslim student, a regular task would be turned into a form of worship, gaining
by that the heavenly reward of Allah. Likewise, those who wish to be rich
should wish for it intending to please Allah, spread his religion, and to set a
good example of rich Muslims, so as to gain Allah’s reward for the intention.
Getting married with the intention of creating an exemplary Muslim family
secures the reward of the deed more than marrying simply because everybody gets
married at a certain age.
The concept of truthfulness of intentions brings out the beauty of
Islam as it reaches out to the hearts of people. People are rewarded for their
sincerity and not for the sort of work they do. They could, while doing
everyday chores, be gaining heaps of reward if they have the right intention in
their hearts.
The Prophet (SAWS)
said that whoever
seeks martyrdom with sincerity will be ranked by Allah among the martyrs even if
he dies in his bed.” Accordingly, the good intentions
of an old woman or an adolescent could put them in the same class as Hamzah
Ibn-Abdul-Muttaalib and Sumayyah (RA).
We all can wish for
martyrdom sincerely and then achieve it even if we die in bed. Allah says what
can be translated as, “…And when the matter (preparation for Jihad) is
resolved on, then if they had been true to Allah, it would have been better for
them.” (TMQ, 47:21). The Prophet (SAWS) once gave an example of a
rich man who spends his money to please Allah and a poor man who wishes to be
rich in order to do the good deeds the rich man does. The Prophet (SAWS)
surprised everyone by revealing that both men get the same reward!
If someone wishes he could build a mosque or spread Islam like those who can,
one would get the reward exactly as if he were able to do those good deeds. The
sincerity of intentions can bring about heaps of rewards.
Truthfulness of speech
Truthfulness of speech is the most widely known type of
truthfulness of the three we are discussing here. The Prophet (SAWS)
used to ask Allah for a truthful tongue, which is something ordinary people like
us need to ask Allah for all the time. There are different kinds of
truthfulness in speech:
The Prophet (SAWS)
instructs us to abstain from narrating (anything) about
him except what you know (for certain), for whoever (intentionally) ascribes to
him what I have not said then (surely) let him occupy his seat in hellfire, and
whoever speaks about the Qur’an on the basis of his own opinion (without
knowledge), then (surely) let him occupy his seat in hellfire. This warning
mentions two important aspects of truthfulness:
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Truthfulness in
the speech of Qur’an: No one is allowed to interpret an ayah according to
his/her own views. For instance, some explain the ayah decreeing hijaab
(veil) as if it were addressed to the wives of the Prophet (SAWS) only,
and not to all women, as the great majority of Muslims understand it.
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Truthfulness in
speech of the Prophet’s (SAWS) hadith: If one is not sure of the
narration of a hadith, he should say, “as X narrated” or “if this
narration is true.”
Other kinds of truthfulness
in speech include:
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Truthfulness in
trade: The Prophet (SAWS) says that the merchant who strives to achieve
the utmost
truthfulness and trustworthiness is among the Prophets, the ones constantly
sincere and the martyrs.
Moreover, the Prophet (SAWS)
once told a group of merchants that they are resurrected (amongst the) impious
on the Day of Judgment, except for him who feared Allah, fulfilled his oath and
spoke the truth.
He (SAWS)
also said the buyer and the seller have the option (to cancel or to confirm
the deal) as long as they have not parted or until they part. If they spoke the
truth and told each other the defects of the item (sold), then their deal will
be blessed; and if they hid (the truth) and told lies, then the blessing of the
deal will be nullified.
Truthfulness in testimony: Testimony is a huge responsibility that should be
taken seriously.
The
Messenger of Allah (SAWS) said that the gravest of the major sins
was to join partners in worship with Allah, and to be undutiful to one's
parents. He also warned against giving a forged statement and false witness.
Lies are not all the same; the more people they harm, the more severe the
punishment for them is.
The Prophet (SAWS) said
that he saw (in a dream) that two men came to him and said, ‘The one whose cheek
you saw being torn away (from the mouth to the ear) was a liar and used to tell
lies and the people would report those lies on his authority until they spread
all over the world. Hence, he will be punished like that until the Day of
Resurrection.
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Truthfulness in
marriage: In marriage, everything should be clear from the beginning. One
should reveal one’s marital status and health conditions among other things to
the prospective spouse before any legal proceedings. Lying in such matters is
by no means allowable.
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Truthfulness to children:
There is a whole chapter in every book of Sunnah (the Prophet's
traditions) solely to warn against lying to children. This is obviously
because children tend to take after their parents. In such a family, lying
would become similar to hereditary diseases. Parents who ask their children to
lie for them actually train them to become professional liars without knowing
it! The Prophet (SAWS) once heard a
companion’s wife tell her son that if he comes to her she would give him
“something.” The Prophet (SAWS) asked her what she was going to give him
and the woman said that she was going to give him some dates. Relieved, the
Prophet (SAWS) told her that had she not really intended to give her son
something as she promised, she was going to be punished for her petty lie in the
hereafter.
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Truthfulness of jokes, (a
concept) which takes us by surprise. The Prophet (SAWS) joked with his
companions, but he never had to lie. We can joke too, but we should avoid
gaining sins by imagining that these lies are trivial. The Prophet (SAWS)
guarantees a house on the sides of Paradise for a man who avoids dispute even if
he were right, a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids lying even
if he were joking, and a house in the upper part of Paradise for a man who
perfects his character.
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Truthfulness in inconsequent
matters: The Prophet also warns us from the so-called “white lies” some of us
unfortunately tell on a daily basis.
Truthfulness of action:
Allah says, what can be translated as, “And say (O Muhammad):
‘My Lord! Let my entry (to the city of Al-Madinah) be good, and (likewise) my
exit (from the city of Makkah) be good; and grant me from You an authority to
help me (or a firm sign or a proof)’” (TMQ, 17:80). The Prophet (SAWS)
has prayed to Allah (SWT) to make his entry to or exit from any place
guarded in truthfulness, away from any evil.
Allah says, what can be translated as, “Among the believers are
men who have been true to their covenant with Allah” (TMQ, 33:23). This
ayah leads us to the conclusion that those who are true to Allah, are granted
all that they ask for.
One of the men whose sincerity to Allah guaranteed
them what they sought was ‘Umair Ibnul-Hamam. During the Battle of Badr, he
asked the Prophet (SAWS) if he would go to Jannah (Paradise) if he
were killed by the disbelievers during the battle. The Prophet replied that he
definitely would. ‘Umair then, overjoyed, dropped a couple of dates he was going
to eat saying, “Are these all that is between me and Jannah?! A life too
long, indeed!” He rejoined the battle and was killed as he had hoped.
The Prophet (SAWS) put aside
some of the spoils of the Battle of Khaibar for one of the new converts. The
man (RA) was stunned, almost offended, when his share of the spoils was
brought to him. He went to the Prophet (SAWS) and asked about it. The
Prophet (SAWS) replied that it was his share of the booty. The
Bedouin said that this is not why he believed in him and followed him; rather,
he followed him so that I could be shot by an arrow right here, (and then he
pointed to his throat) then die and enter Paradise. The Prophet (SAWS)
told the man that if he was sincere then Allah will grant him his.” After a
short while, fighting resumed and the Bedouin’s body was brought to the Prophet
(SAWS) with an arrow in his throat at exactly the same spot where
he had pointed to before to the Prophet (SAWS). Thereupon, the Prophet (SAWS)
asked if it was the same man then said that since he was sincere, Allah
granted him his wish. Then using his own garment, the Prophet (SAWS)
shrouded the Bedouin and prayed the funeral prayer over him.
This notion encourages those who have big dreams to do
everything they can be truthfull with Allah and with themselves, because that
guarantees them the fulfillment of their dreams.
“Abdullaah Ibn Jahsh (RA) prayed to Allah before the battle
of ‘Uhud to help him kill two strong disbelievers and then send him a third who
would kill him, slit his belly open and cut off his ears and nose and resurrect
him on the Day of Judgment in his mutilated body so that when Allah asks him why
this happened to him, he would reply, “I did it for you, Allah,” and Allah would
tell him then that what he said was the truth. After the battle, Sa“ad Ibn Mu“ath
(RA) walked up and down the battlefield looking for “Abdullaah’s body.
He was stunned when he finally found “Abdullaah’s dead body with a split belly,
cut-off ears and nose, and two dead bodies from the disbeliever’s troops lying
next to it.
An African slave asked the Prophet (SAWS) during the Battle
of Khaibar if leaving the Jewish tribes and fighting with the Muslim troops
would allow him to go to Jannah. The Prophet’s (SAWS) positive
answer puzzled the slave, so he asked, “Even with my black face, tattered
clothes, and disgusting smell?” and the Prophet (SAWS) replied
affirmatively. Later, the slave was killed and the Prophet (SAWS)
ordered some men to take the dead body to his tent. There, the Prophet (SAWS)
stood in front of the slave’s body and said that Allah made pleasant your
unpleasant smell and made luminous your black face. The judgment of deeds is not
based on looks or pedigree; rather, it relies on devotion and sincerity to
Allah.
“Ali Ibn Abu Talib used to pray to Allah to grant him
martyrdom after a long life spent in His cause; and that is what he was
granted. Likewise, Omar Ibnul-Khattab asked Allah to grant him martyrdom within
the borders of Madinah, which was quite a strange prayer as Madinah was the
capital of Islam and fighting in it was not imaginable, but Allah still granted
him his wish.
Similarly, Salahuddin used to say, “How can I laugh
when the Aqsah mosque is besieged?” He was never seen laughing until he
re-conquered it.
Truthfulness is not only in speech, but also in intention and
action. Once you fulfill all three you are considered among the truthful, like
Abu-Bakr who was called As-Siddeeq (confirmer of truth) for his
unsurpassed correctness.
What is the reward of truthfulness?
Allah says what can be translated as, “ And those who obey Allah
and the Messenger (Muhammad), then they will be in the company of those on whom
Allah has bestowed His Grace, of the Prophets, the siddiqun (those
followers of the Prophets who were first and foremost to believe in them, like
Abu-Bakr As-Siddeeq), the martyrs, and the righteous. And how excellent
these companions are!” (TMQ, 4:69). The sequence in the ayah means that the
rank of the truthful (i.e. siddiqun) comes right after that of the
prophets. The truthful are actually mentioned before the martyrs. That is
because martyrdom can only be achieved by the
truthful. A black slave attained martyrdom one day after embracing Islam
because he was completely sincere.
When is it permissible to lie?
According to scholars, lying is permissible in three cases only:
1.
Warfare: because
warfare is based on deception.
2.
Making peace: for
example, one is allowed to tell each of the parties in dispute that the other
says good things about them.
Pleasing a spouse: This does not mean that a man can lie to his wife to cover up
his deception. It simply means that a man is allowed to tell his wife that she
is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen even if it is not true!
Authentic
hadith reported by Muslim in al-Musnad as-Saheeh
page/number 194, and narrated by Abu-Hurayrah (RA).