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Sunaa’ al-Hayah
- Life
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Episode
19: Determination
In the name of Allah the All-Merciful, the Ever-
Merciful; praise be to Allah, the Lord of mankind; may His peace and blessings
be upon His Prophet, and our Master, Muhammad (SAWS).
Welcome to the second episode of the second stage of
Sunaa’ al-Hayah (Life Makers). After we finished the first stage (praise to
Allah (SWT)), and the special celebration that ended it, we began last
week with the first episode, which was an introduction to the ‘revival’ stage.
As I explained to you, an extraordinary number of achievements is required for
this stage.
In the first stage, we broke off our chains. We
managed to collect 1.5 million bags of clothes, which are now being
distributed. We established the project called ‘Guardians of the Future’ and
had thousands of young men and women work with us in a responsible and positive
manner. All these results were great and were achieved in a short period of
time during which we broke off many chains that had shackled us for tens, or
even hundreds of years. We discovered that success is possible and obtainable.
The second stage is very important and its title is
huge, that is: the start of the Ummah’s (Islamic Nation’s) revival. This
is a serious task and the results we achieved in the first stage during a
short period of time are the best proof of our ability to succeed. We want to
change our painful reality from one of humiliation to one of great dignity; from
economical devastation to economical prosperity; from unemployment to work and
production; and from loss of identity to pride in being Muslims. We want to
trigger a new age in success for universities and systems of education,
non-profit organizations, social organisations, and in the field of
translation. We want to turn our culture from a cheap and tasteless one to a
leading, refined, culture.
Revival is an immense word and thus to achieve our
goal, Sunaa’ al-Hayah must be a very practical project, as you saw in the first
stage; it is not just empty talk or unhelpful lectures. Therefore, this episode
and the previous episode serve as the strong motivation that will make us
productive during this second stage. Just like the massive energy expenditure
of the powerful engines at maximum capacity that are required for a plane to
take off. It is likely that we would take a rest afterwards and reduce that
energy a little, but we cannot afford to do that now during take off, while the
plane is still on the runway. During this take off, the engines have to work at
full capacity, the fuel has to burn as fast as possible, the plane has to be at
full speed, the passengers have to be attentive and have their seatbelts tied,
the pilot and his assistant must have their hands together on the throttle
steering the plane forward; no one should be allowed to sleep or relax. This is
the second stage and this is what is required of you.
What I tell you needs actual application, and praise
be to Allah (SWT) that the start of this stage has coincided with the
start of the summer holidays. I would like to ask the youth, what will you do
during the summer? The effort that we require of you is extraordinary and we
need the utmost effort from every one of you for our take off, since this is the
only way revival can happen. The young men and women who participated in
collecting 1.5 million bags of clothes, the men and women who participated in
the campaign against smoking and drugs, and the youth who have participated in
the ‘Guardians of the Future’ initiative have to continue to work with us now,
otherwise our project will be of no use. We do not want to stay at the bottom;
we want to move and to take off. I consider today’s episode as the start of the
engines, since this stage of moving towards the revival will take four months
and will require highly attentive people.
Therefore, in today’s episode, I have to start with
talking about something called ‘determination.’
Examples of why this is important:
To achieve this project we need extraordinary
determination, similar to that of the Prophet (SAWS) who, regardless of
the obstacles, used to make unsurpassed efforts. Imitate the Prophet (SAWS).
The world turned on him at fifty years of age, after the death of his uncle
Abu-Taleb, and his wife Khadija, and the disbelievers’ ever increasing
resistance; it went as far as attempting to murder him after they refused to
embrace Islam. Nevertheless, he walked 100 km from Makkah to al-Taif, which is
the same distance as between Cairo and Tanta or Wadi al-Natroon. Why did he do
that? He did that because he felt that the message of Islam was very precious;
he did not tire or feel any boredom because he knew the message was of grave
importance.
When he reached al-Taif, he was not welcomed. The
situation was so difficult; it would have overpowered anybody else’s
determination. One leader said to him, “If I found you hanging to the covers of
the Ka’ba swearing that you are a Prophet, I would still not believe you.”
Another leader told him, “Did Allah not find a better person to send (as a
Prophet) than you?” A third leader said to him, “If you are a true Prophet, you
are so great that I cannot talk to you. However, if you are a liar, you are too
worthless for me to talk to.” Try to imagine what was happening to his
determination during all this. Then he said, “If you refuse to help me, then at
least do not tell Quraysh (the Prophet’s tribe in Makkah) that I came
seeking your help against them.” They answered, “We swear before Allah to tell
them and to send people to inform them that you came seeking our help against
them.” The Prophet (SAWS) said, “If you accept neither this nor that,
then let me go.” They said, “No, not until we gather the people to stone you.”
The people started throwing stones at him. Your beloved Prophet (SAWS)
had stones thrown at him for you to be a Muslim and for this revival to start.
This is the type of determination that we need today, not less than that by any
means.
At that time, the Prophet (SAWS) was
accompanied by Zayd Ibn-Haritha who held the Prophet (SAWS) tight, so
most of the stones would hit him rather than the Prophet (SAWS), until
his head was covered with blood. The Prophet (SAWS) ran on the ground
filled with stones with bleeding feet until he found a small garden to hide in.
As soon as he entered that garden, before he treated his injuries, he raised his
hands to the sky in extreme determination to continue to deliver
the message. He called on Allah (SWT), saying, “Oh, Allah, I appeal to
You for the weakness in my strength, and my limited power and the treatment of
contempt and humiliation from people. To You, the Most
Merciful of all the merciful ones, You are the Lord of the oppressed, and my
Lord. Under whose care are You leaving me to? To an enemy oppressing me or a
friend You have given control of my affair? If there is no anger from You on me,
I will forever be content. However, Your blessing is vastly important to me. I
seek refuge with the Glory of Your Light, which the heavens and earth are lit
with, that Your anger will not befall on me, nor that Your displeasure descend
on me. To You is the supplication until You are pleased, and there is no
control or power except by You.” This is the extraordinary determination
that I am talking about. Then, the angel of
mountains approached the Prophet (SAWS) and asked him, “If you want, I
could collapse myself onto them.” The Prophet (SAWS) answered, “No, may
Allah bring out from their children some one who might worship him.” He
meant some one like you.
I want you to walk with me a distance like that of
the Marathon of 42km. This will be a proof that you will continue with me, and
board the plane. We all have to do it this week, even if you have to divide it
over the seven days and walk 6km per day. Your Prophet (SAWS) walked a
longer distance than this one to al-Taif. We want a determination as strong as
that of the Prophet (SAWS). Say to yourself, “I am doing what the
Prophet did, and my intention is to strengthen my determination. While walking,
I will be thinking of my target in life and how I could participate in this
Islamic revival.” This is the second main reason for walking: to provoke
thought.
The question here is simple: do you intend to
release your internal determination into the world or not?
We want a determination similar to that of Omar
Ibnul-Khattab (RA) who was stabbed nine times. The milk, he was given to
drink, was pouring out of his wounds, yet he raised his head minutes before he
died to ask, “Have the people prayed?” Then he stood up and addressed the
Muslims saying, “Who will bear witness before Allah (SWT), on the Day of
Judgment, that I fulfilled my responsibilities towards the Muslims?” Ibn-Abbas
came to him and said, “I will bear witness to that.” Then Omar Ibnul-Khattab
(RA) held onto him and asked him, “Do you swear that you will bear witness
or are you just saying this now to please me?” Ibn-Abbas answered, “I swear that
I will bear witness.” Omar then said, “Only now is Omar relieved.”
Do you know who life makers, and anyone that works
with us, are similar to? The answer is a mountain climber. A climber’s coach
tells him to put his hands, but not his eyes, on the rock he is climbing; if
he puts his eyes on it, he will fail. His eyes have to be concentrating
on the target, the next rock up, while his hands are on the rock he is on. That
way, his hands will automatically go to the next rock up, since his eyes have
already memorized its location.
If you have to climb the mountain with a blind body,
then what is the pleasure of climbing? Is it reaching the end? No, it is the
climbing activity itself. Therefore, he who climbs two rocks is different than
he who climbs a pyramid; different again to he who climbs Mount Everest; and
again different to he who participates in this Islamic revival. The motto of mountain climbing
is: ‘Never look down or you will fall’ and I am telling you the same. Do not
look at the present reality of Muslims and say that nothing will work. One
expert mountain climber fell, in spite of his extensive training, because he
looked down. Therefore, I repeat, forget the painful present and keep your eyes
on the revival, and how it could be achieved through today’s episode.
The Recipe for Determination:
Determination is something inside you that only you
can grow, and when you do, it could turn you into a different person, because an
extraordinary energy would be generated inside of you.
Muslims, in the different battles at the time of the
Prophet (SAWS), were fewer in number than their enemies to a degree that
it was not logically possible for them to triumph over them by numbers. Every
person has the same internal power. However what makes the difference is the
ability to release that power and let it mix with every part and every cell of
your body until your determined soul and your ability to work day and night
shows in your eyes. Therefore, it is one of the miracles Allah (SWT)
bestowed in humans as He says in Surat al-Hijr what can be translated as,
"When I have fashioned him (in due proportion) and breathed into him of My
spirit, fall ye down in obeisance unto him." (TMQ, 15:29).
Is there something in particular that could release
your internal determination? Yes. The recipe I am going to tell you about now
is the recipe that was used by the Prophet (SAWS) to encourage his
Companions, and it is the same recipe used by countries as well as individuals.
Whoever follows this recipe is able to be productive. The recipe is as follows:
you have to have a target and the ability to imagine the details of that
target. That is determination: to live your target and draw its most intricate
details. Say, for example, ‘When I
become the minister of the Ministry of Education, I will do such and such in the
education system,’ or ‘when I become the manager of that certain company, I will
do such and such,’ or ‘when I win that particular championship, I will prostrate
thanking Allah and I will be an example of the religious well-behaved Muslim.”
In that way, the dream starts to penetrate into your imagination, releasing your
determination.
Many people do not have a target to start with or
are afraid to dream, to avoid living in fantasy a world. There is a distinctive
line between living in a fantasy world and dreaming of your target. That line
is the ability to turn your dreams into hard work.
The recipe for determination starts with a dream that
dominates the mind, for example, when the players in a football team say, “We
will win the championship.” This results in the release of an extraordinary
force.
What was the seed the Prophet (SAWS) planted
in his Companions to make them able to produce these extraordinary deeds? It was
the ability to imagine Jannah (paradise).
The subconscious mind does not recognize the
difference between fantasy and reality. Therefore, if you convince it with an
idea, it perceives it as a reality.
The Prophet (SAWS) once called a companion
named Abdullah Ibn-Anis and asked him to carry out a very difficult task that
required walking an immense distance. Abdullah did it and returned to the
Prophet (SAWS), who asked him, “What did you do?” Abdullah answered, “Oh,
Messenger of Allah, I did it.” The Prophet (SAWS) then said, “Wait for me
to reward you.” The Prophet (SAWS) went to his house, came out with a
stick and gave it to Abdullah, who asked, “What is this, O Messenger of Allah?”
The Prophet (SAWS) answered, “Take this and give it back to me on the Day
of Judgment and I will let you enter Jannah.” Abdullah narrated that he
took the stick and never parted with it all his life, day or night, and he
requested for it to be buried with him in his grave so he would meet the Prophet
(SAWS) with it on the Day of Judgment.
Another time, the Prophet (SAWS) met a
companion named Haritha and asked him, “Haritha, how did you wake up?” Haritha
answered, “Oh, Messenger of Allah, I woke up a true believer.” Notice this
pleasant start and compare it to yourself when you wake up in the morning upset
and bored. The Prophet (SAWS) asked, “There is a certain reality behind
everything, so what is the reality behind your faith?” Haritha said, “I woke up
as if I could see the throne of Allah; as if I could see the righteous enjoying
Jannah and the wicked screaming in hellfire, so I rose above this worldly
life; I stay up at night (praying) and I stay thirsty in the morning (fasting).”
This is how his determination was released.
One more example is that of a companion named Samra
Ibnul-Akwa’, who was a great runner but did not own a horse. He was sitting
once with the Prophet (SAWS), while he was discussing military tactics
with some Companions, when they noticed a spy leaving after he had overheard
them. The Prophet (SAWS) said, “Who will bring me this man and enter
Jannah?” Notice how as soon as the Jannah is mentioned, their
determination is released. Three men rose, the first one on his camel, the
second one on his donkey and the third one was Samra who did not have anything
to ride, yet he said to himself, “But it is the Jannah!” The three men
started following the spy. Samra narrated that he ran until he passed the man
on the donkey, and continued to run until he passed the man on the camel, then
his strength started to fail him and he was about to fall but he told himself,
“but it is the Jannah!” He ran and ran but could not get to the spy. He
told himself again, “but it is the Jannah,” and ran and ran some more
even after the spy had disappeared from his sight. Nevertheless, he continued
to run until he saw the spy stopping for a rest. He caught him and told him,
“Come with me, for you are my Jannah!”
This is the
meaning and this is what I would like you to have, a very strong determination.
Imagine paradise when you look at your ambition. Then ask yourself, what would
you want to be after you achieve it? Would you want to be the owner of the
biggest international company in a particular domain? Remember that you would be
competing against international companies while you would be proud to be a
Muslim. It would be a good thing for our country and for all Muslims. Everyone
in the West and the Arab world would know about your products. You would employ
thousands of people. Live through every detail of your ambition; make it feel
real as opposed to a dream. When you do that you will be encouraged to strive
to achieve your dream.
The Prophet
(SAWS) used the image of paradise as the reinforcer of determination for
the believers. It was on the day of the Battle of Badr. The Muslims were few
and the disbelievers were many. The Muslims were weak and disbelievers were
strong. The Muslims’ determination was the only force that the Prophet
(SAWS) could use to counteract the disbelievers’ force. Therefore, the
Prophet (SAWS) said, “Go to paradise which is as big as all the heavens
and the Earth!” The believers’ determination quickly began to appear. Amer
Ibnul-Hamam then asked, “O Messenger of Allah, paradise is as big as all the
heavens and the Earth?” “Yes,” replied the Prophet (SAWS). “Splash,
splash!” said Amer. “Why do you say splash?” asked the Prophet (SAWS).
“I hope to be one of the people of paradise,” replied Amer. Then the Messenger
(SAWS) said, “You are one of its residents.” The Muslims were victorious
and Amer Ibnul-Hamam died.
Today’s
episode tells you to look at every detail of your ambition and to focus
similarly on paradise. Our final aim is to have a revival not just for the sake
of having one but also for pleasing Allah (SWT), our Lord. Your ambition
may be to be the owner of the biggest company in the world but your final aim is
Allah’s satisfaction with you, a revival for the Muslims, and for Islam.
What will
happen is that two images will be made in your mind. These two images will
generate your strong determination. The Prophet (SAWS) is not the only
one who used this tool but also others like the United States, for example.
Once, the United States’ ambition was to land on the moon. Naturally whoever
suggested it first was thought to be mad. However, all the efforts continued to
achieve the aim of going to the moon, landing on it and planting the American
flag on its surface. When the Prophet (SAWS) looked up at the moon every
month, he always used to say, “Allah is my Lord and your Lord.” Therefore, the
revival is part of us as Muslims!
I would also
like to add that your ability to imagine your plan in full is the first sign of
having a strong determination. The Prophet (SAWS) was serious when he
used the idea of paradise as a reinforcer for the strength of determination of
the believers. He knew that there were still some of the believers who had weak
faith, for example, a man like Saraqa wanted to kill the Prophet (SAWS)
but when he approached him, he could not kill him. “Give me something,” he
ordered the Prophet (SAWS). “I promise to give you the bracelet of
Koosari,” said the Prophet (SAWS). “Who is Koosari?’ asked Saraqa.
“Koosari is the King of the Knights,” replied the Prophet (SAWS) with
such confidence that Saraqa believed him. Then he asked the Prophet (SAWS)
to write his promise down. “Abu-Bakr, write down what I said to him,” said the
Prophet (SAWS). The man was still not a believer. Years passed, and the
Prophet (SAWS) passed away. Finally, Omar Ibnul-Khattab (RA)
opened the treasures of Koosari. He held up the bracelet of Koosari and said,
“O people, ambitions are made to be realised. Where is Saraqa Ibn-Malik? Come
Saraqa, wear Koosari’s bracelet.” Then, everyone in the mosque wept saying,
“Behold! The honest and the trustworthy Muhammad (SAWS) has told the
truth after 20 years.”
The word
revival does not come from us but from Allah (SWT), the Blessed, the One
Above All, when he promised the Muslims in his declaration which can be
translated as, “Allah has promised, to those among you who believe and work
righteous deeds, that He will, of surety, grant them in the Land, inheritance
(of power).” (TMQ, 24:55).
Therefore the
revival exists, but how does one achieve it? Today’s episode is the key to
strong determination.
A young man
approached the Prophet (SAWS) and said, “Permit me to commit adultery.”
Listen carefully to what the Prophet (SAWS) told him. “Would you allow
it for your mother?” The Prophet (SAWS) asked. “No,” the young man
answered. “Would you allow it for your aunt?” “No,” again answered the man.
“Would you allow it for your sister?” “No,” he repeated. Then the Prophet
(SAWS) said, “People don’t like the things, which you don’t like to happen
to your mother and sister, to happen to their daughters.” Then the man said,
“By Allah, from today and onwards, I will not commit adultery anymore.”
Notice how
the Prophet (SAWS) changed the thinking of this young man in half a
minute. The man imagined consecutive pictures in his
mind and realized that he did not like what he saw. Therefore, he refused the
whole idea and forever changed his mind about it. Hence, if you were to imagine
a bad picture of yourself smoking in your mind, for example, you would quit
smoking altogether. There are examples that occur among our people. The idea
of having an ambition and imagining its details is not theoretical. I will
prove it. We have here living examples of people who had an ambition and were
successful in achieving it. We will meet them now.
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Three days ago I read in a Saudi magazine that the top
position in high school graduation with a mark of 100% in the whole of Saudi
Arabia was Aliya Ghanim.
Aliya watched the episode of ‘Having an Ambition in Life,’ then she decided
to apply it to her own life. Therefore she put an ambition in her mind and
achieved it. Aliya is with us here. She says, “I attained a mark of 100%
in high school. My mother always used to say to me that a true Muslim does
not fail but always succeeds. Then I thought of a way to be successful and
asked that question to some people I was with. One of them told me that she
has never seen a successful Muslim in her whole life. I wondered if she was
saying that about me because I am a Muslim and what she was saying was
impossible, since a true Muslim cannot fail. Then during the showing of the
episode ‘Specifying your Ambition,’ I wrote down the most realistic ambition
that I could attain and that was to get 100% in the high school certificate
and also to please Allah. I planned how I would achieve my ambition and I
said to myself that I must put a great deal of effort into studying, in
hoping, in being optimistic and counting on Allah for this matter. When I
learned of the news of my results, I could not believe it. I admit I
sometimes passed through some moments when I felt some weakness in my faith,
thinking, how could I get a 100% when I am among 17 million people in the
whole of Saudi Arabia? I then tried to strengthen my determination and read
what I had written down when I felt that weakness. I wrote that if I did
not get a 100%, I will fail. Any human being can realize his ambition if he
works hard to achieve it.”
Aliya’s objectives in life were:
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To come first in my country with total loyalty and with
total faith in Allah
(SWT).
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To find a cure for cancer.
If Allah
(SWT) wills it, she will
achieve her second goal in the same way she achieved the first one.
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I have another example here: a young man, who, since he
was a small child, had an objective in life. Now, at 31 years old, he has
achieved it. He is a great example of an Islamic revival. His name is
Ahmad Moharam. He says, “I used to always hear the typical question for a
young boy, what do you want to be when you grow up? I used to love to read
about computers. This was in the 80s, and you know, people used to tell me
that all this talk about computers is worthless. I attended Mansoora
University, in the Faculty of Commerce. However, the Faculty of Engineering
used to be just opposite to the Faculty in which I was enrolled. I used to
attend lectures in the Faculty of Engineering which I thought would be
beneficial for me later on. Then, I started to help engineering students in
plans related to programming. Later, I was asked to fix some programs that
were in textile factories imported from overseas because I was living close
to where they were. Next, I thought about making new and improved programs
and of course I faced rejection because a great deal of money and a large
number of people were needed. However, what I did was stay at home for six
months to come up with a program to replace those imported from abroad. I
made the new program and the factory owner asked me to try it out in his
factory. After numerous errors, the program was successful. It was one of
the most popular imported programs with the endorsement of international
companies who creates such programs. Then, we won first prize in textiles
from the Arabic Industrial Association from among many candidates, which
included university professors. It also awarded us a second prize for
‘document security’ and the 3rd award was an international one
for the best website in private programs to control industrial machines. My
aim now, is to finish my Masters Degree in the field of ‘control’ and to
employ a research group having their own goals in advances, for example, to
have a common goal that after 10 years we will have a water purification
system in the whole of the Arab World.
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This video clip tells of another example of how strong
determination and willpower is linked to seeing and planning the details of
how to achieve your goal. It is about a man whose goal in life, since his
youth, had been to build a fort similar in design to a big castle, with
souvenirs for people to come and see, and to be a good source of income. In
art lessons at school he used to draw his plan on paper. His teacher saw
him drawing one then caned him, telling him to have a realistic ambition.
He promised himself that he would build his fort. It is a similar story to
that of Ahmad Moharam and Aliya, and it is also the same as what the Prophet
(SAWS) did. It has the same principle, which never changes: in order
to achieve your goal in life, its planning must occupy all of your thought.
Musa’s Castle is now one of the biggest attractions in Lebanon. Even when
he was very poor, the man succeeded. He believed that if a person had a
strong determination, nothing could stop him from getting what he wanted.
Therefore there are three ideas that
must occupy our minds: the revival, your goal in life (helping to create this
revival) and paradise. The Prophet (SAWS) taught us Dua’a
(supplicaiton) to recite three times a day. It is one of the Dua’a we
should recite every morning and evening. This Dua’a is to keep
you on track in your thinking, “O
Allah, I take refuge in you from sorrow and anxiety, weakness and laziness,
miserliness and cowardice, the burden of debts and from being overpowered by
men.”
This week’s plan:
It is the same as that of last week,
which is to walk 42 km during one week. That was a rehearsal. If you want to
have stronger determination, walk 42 km in one day only. I have tried it 5
times. On three occasions it was during Hajj (pilgrimage) from Makkah to
Mina, then from Mina to Arafah, then from Arafah to Mozdalefa, then from
Mozdalefa to Mina, and back to Makkah. This whole distance is about 42 km. Why
don’t you try it? Asma’ managed about the same distance while pregnant. Do it
with the intention to train your determination. Then say, “Allah is my witness;
I have participated in Life Makers and in helping the revival of Islam.” Then
send us a message on our website or phone us to tell us if you have walked it
all at once or over six or seven days. The important thing is to tell us about
what you did so that the number of people participating with us can please us.
You can walk alone or with friends, in
the heat or at night. It does not matter, but what matters is that you make a
schedule to follow, including Dhikr (remembering Allah
(SWT)),
doing your Dua’a, and that you are consistent. Your ambition will occupy
your mind, in addition to the physical changes you will experience on your
self. Older people and women can walk this distance gradually such that one
hour of walking 6 km per day over 7 days, will add up to 42 km. It may be
difficult for women and older men to achieve this distance in one attempt.
Children can also walk it with their
friends or with their parents. Physicians discovered that the best sport to
build up strength is walking long distances. We want thousands of people to
walk and to send us a message that they succeeded. We also have with us a very
dear person to me, to the Egyptian people and to the whole Arab world, Captain
Abdul-Aziz Abdul-Shaferi here. Abdul-Aziz has something important to tell us
about strong determination and willpower.
He said that there are different
components for success in any work. In a sport or activity, physical, artistic
and educational components determine success. That is also besides individual
talent. However these components are worthless without those aspects that
strengthen your determination. Such aspects create the ability to endure, to be
patient and to control one’s nerves when facing the crowd and intense
competition. The intense competition also creates a physical and emotional
endurance. Victory is always achieved after patience. Abdul-Aziz also believes
that faith is another very important aspect in achieving your ambition.
We have reached the end of today’s episode. I hope that this week’s plan will
be achieved. Finally, I believe that we need an extraordinary amount of effort
and determination when we are in the process of creating the beginning of an
Islamic revival. I thank you very much. May Allah’s peace and blessings be
upon you all .
TMQ=Translation of the Meaning of the Qur'an. This
translation is for the realized meaning, so far, of the stated (Surah:Ayah)
of the Qur'an. Reading the translated meaning of the Qur'an can never
replace reading it in Arabic, the language in which it was revealed
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